Meet the OG Aunt Bea of Boyle Heights, Young at 97!
By Shirlee Smith
Boyle
Heights - African Americans Were There, our organization, seeks to
develop a historical perspective documenting the early arrivals and
the continuous influx of our elders into this vibrant and
multicultural community.
Through
stories, pictures and more, we work to present the facts surrounding
our existence. We work to restore our history. And equally as
important, we work to educate the public.
Please
contact us (626) 296-2777 with stories or other information regarding
African Americans in Boyle Heights.
The stories of Black families in
Boyle Heights have a common thread—moving from Boyle Heights but
coming back to the “home place,” race relations, and the unique
ability to never be too far away from their local relatives.
African
Americans N Boyle Heights - We Were There stories focus on where they
worked, where they came from, their hopes and dreams.
All
African Americans who lived in Boyle Heights didn’t necessarily
grow up there. Many of the “Old Timers,” like 97-year-old
Beatrice McBride (pictured above, photo courtesy of Shirlee Smith), came when they were older to join family members.
Beatrice came from New York in 1945, when she was 23. She
came to live with her mother, Edith Williams, on North Savannah
Street in the close-knit neighborhood where many of our people
settled.
“It
was way different” from life in The Big Apple, says Aunt Bea, as
she’s called. Unlike New York, “Boyle Heights,” she says, “was
slow and friendly. People knew their neighbors. Everybody knew
everybody. If you passed someone on the street, you stopped to say a
few words.”
“People
had time for each other,” she says.
Back
then, there were no refrigerators or freezers, and the ice man
brought ice for the ice box. Walking to Currie’s Ice Cream shop on
the corner of Soto Street and Brooklyn Avenue was considered a real
treat—nobody dreamed of a day when ice cream could be kept at home.
With
a flair for reminiscing, Aunt Bea says life was simple, with the
Helms man bringing the bakery goods and the vegetable man bringing
the produce right to your street. The milkman delivered milk, in
glass bottles, right to everyone’s front porch.
Those,
she says, were the days when all these people knew their customers
and took the time to talk with them.
Aunt
Bea’s quick to recognize what she calls “turning back in time”
to today’s home deliveries of groceries and even cooked meals.
Grub
Hub! Uber Eats! Hello Fresh! Home Chef!
Aunt
Bea keeps up with current times, but isn’t quite ready to trade in
her memories of the Helms Bakery truck man for a Grub Hub scooter
kid, she says.
Boyle
Heights lifestyle was so different
that Aunt Bea says she longed for the hustle and bustle of New York—the comfort of a familiar place, where, she says, “everybody was in
a hurry to get somewhere.” So like many other African Americans who
settled in Boyle Heights, she left.
And
like others, she returned.
“I
came back, in a hurry, to the slow living,” she says, “and loved
it.”
Living
may have been slow and relaxed but Aunt Bea says the African American
elders were fast to keep the young adults in line.
A
dress code? Yes, it was unwritten but strictly enforced.
Once
and only once did twenty-something Aunt Bea try wearing shorts in
public.
“I
only went across the street to Miss Marshall’s, who had a small
church on Savannah Street, and I was in shorts,” she remembers.
“Boy, was that risqué. You bet I didn’t do that anymore. The
grown folks got on me about that. You had to cover yourself up.”
But
the elders did more than just execute and expect adherence to a dress
code; they also expected manners and correct speech—this meant
profanity was not tolerated.
A
common practice in the neighborhood, back then, was the caretaking of
relatives old and young. Aunt Bea married twice but had no children
of her own. She took on the care of her niece,
Carolyn, and still provides care for her.
“Of
course I still do,” she says. “I promised my sister that I would,
as long as I lived, care for her child—well, she’s very much not
still a child.”
There
are many constant threads I hear in the stories of Boyle Heights and
one of those threads is Evergreen Cemetery.
Some
tell stories of the cemetery as a picnic ground, a lover’s lane or
place to procure flowers (from graves) to sell on the corners in
downtown Los Angeles, Aunt Bea remembers being taught to drive
(shifting and clutching) on the narrow winding roads.
Seldom
discussed are the wealth of social activities Evergreen burial
grounds were used for.
On
the traditional side, Aunt Bea continually visits the cemetery to
place flowers at the grave sites of her family members.
Evergreen
was much more than the only cemetery in Los Angeles County that
allowed African Americans to have a final resting place.
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